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The Relationship Clinic

The Relationship Clinic

The place where Powerhouse Couples are built so that Powerhouse Families can thrive.

Merely co-existing

Merely co-existing and co-managing in a life together is simply not good enough.

Successful relationships are all about creating and thriving together at your fullest potential. These are the true foundations of a Powerhouse Couple. It’s what you and your partner deserve! Settling for anything less is just not an option.

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In your relationship are you experiencing…

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Perhaps your relationship

When Your Relationship Feels Stuck, Disconnected, or on the Brink—You’re Not Alone

Perhaps your relationship lacks depth and vulnerability. It might feel superficial. You may even have started avoiding each other.

There could be mental health struggles or a crisis that is impacting your relationship. It’s possible that your family has experienced a stressful or traumatic event (e.g., an accident, critical illness diagnosis, witnessed heated arguments or abuse at home).

You may be worried about how your relationship is affecting your children. There might be frustration that the two of you can’t agree on parenting methods and styles.

Power struggles could have you feeling gridlocked on issues. It may be at the point that one (or both) of you have started fantasizing about a life that doesn’t include your partner. You may even be on the brink of separation or divorce. Or you could be reeling after a betrayal (e.g., extramarital affairs or ongoing lies about finances or other important matters).

Your relationship situation might feel bleak. You may feel helpless.

But… There is hope! Whether you’re located in North Vancouver, West Vancouver, Squamish, the Lower Mainland, or throughout British Columbia.

Contact me to find out how we can work together to strengthen your relationship

Are you a couple who:

Are you a couple who:

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Has a strong connection and shares a desire for your relationship to flourish? Do you want to develop tools and strategies to be proactive so that your relationship can thrive?

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Yearns for your relationship to succeed, but is experiencing stuck-ness around issues such as communication, conflict resolution and hearing/understanding each other?

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Always dreamed of having a loving partner and a happy family, but realizes that your relationship is not sustainable with the problems you are currently experiencing? If things continue this way, are you scared that the dream might come to an end? Do you feel helpless on how to get your relationship back on track?

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Realizes that your relationship has reached its end and wants to separate amicably, with respect, and strives to be the best co-parents through this transition?

I’ve worked with hundreds of couples

I’ve worked with hundreds of couples who were going through the same things. I can help.

Empowering and inspiring my North Shore and online clients to reach their truest potential is my passion and mission. My unique approach when working with couples will support you in developing a toolbox with practical and actionable strategies to strengthen your connection as a couple or a family.

As a Certified Gottman Couples Therapist, I have developed a unique approach when working with couples. I complement The Gottman Method by incorporating aspects from other areas of my specializations, such as Attachment Theory, Mental Health, Trauma, and Neuroscience. I’m also certified in Dr. Sue Johnson’s Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT), focusing on de-escalating conflicts and reestablishing emotional connections. By incorporating these aspects, I have gone on to create my own innovative approach when working with couples that has set a new standard for couples therapy.

I’ve witnessed this approach help so many couples to get their relationships back on track. Every time I do, it brings me a great sense of joy to see the couple reconnecting and on the road to happiness.

Contact me to find out how we can work together to strengthen your relationship

Vulnerability

“Vulnerability is our natural state of being. When we have been met with too many painful experiences in our lives, the brain has a powerful defense mechanism to protect us from feeling further hurt and vulnerability. When this defense turns on, it will keep us loving at arm’s length, it puts our protective walls up, and our armour on. One of my missions is to help my clients understand and get to the root of their brain’s defense, so they can learn how to increase their capacity, bit by bit, to get back to their natural state of being, which is vulnerability.”

Laila Presotto

What can be achieved

Couples Counselling Helps You Heal, Grow, and Deepen Your Connection

Here are some examples of what can be achieved:

  • Communicate more effectively and respectfully.
  • Understand your and your partner’s triggers and patterns of reacting.
  • Listen better so you truly understand each other.
  • Heal pain from the past and work towards forgiving each other.
  • Learn to resolve disagreements respectfully.
  • Gain valuable insights to enhance emotional resiliency and develop a happier and healthier mindset for a more fulfilling relationship.
  • Overcome blind spots you may have about your own childhood, so you don’t repeat them or overcompensate for them in your relationship.
  • Become closer and more intimate than you’ve ever been.

I can help to save a relationship

Strengthen Emotional Intimacy and Navigate Parenting Challenges with Expert Couples Therapy

I can help to save a relationship that feels broken beyond repair. Together, we’ll work towards deepening your emotional connection.

Happy, loving coupleWith practice, you can become more affectionate and appreciative towards one another. You can grow your capacity to be more vulnerable, therefore lowering your protective walls.

Working with me, you can become unstuck in your relationship and “flow” together better. You may also develop a deeper understanding and empathy towards each another.

You can learn how to repair past hurts and traumas more effectively. You will also develop tools to address power struggles and gridlocked issues.

You can build coping strategies to support and manage your stress and mental health.

With my guidance, you and your partner can be on the same page when parenting so that you are giving your children consistent messages. We’ll work to boost your confidence so that you’ll become the best parents you can be.

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You don’t have to struggle any longer. True happiness in your relationship can be achieved!

Contact me to find out discover how you can become a Powerhouse Couple.
I provide relationship counselling in person in North Vancouver and online, throughout BC.

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